Err..not feeling very well these few days!

I had flu, neck-ache, fever and a lil head-ache.

Tomorrow i thought of taking eh Medical Certificate!

Dear Liyana,

You are a person who needs a partner who is responsible financially with an education, who will share responsibilities with you, support you emotionally and keep up with the heat and romance.

Effort is a big thing for you and you need to see efforts being made by your partner often. Lack of efforts makes you feel like you may not be worth it in your partner's eyes and can cause problem in your relationship.

**Just remember that your partner can only do what he knows and cannot read your mind. If your partner is investing effort, but not quire as much as you would like, or not in a way that makes you feel special, just talk to him.

Let your partner know that you love him and appreciate what he does for you, but also need and desire more. Then tell him what those needs and desires are.

Open and honest communication with your partner will help your relationship grow into a more close and loving one.

Understanding and caring about each other needs is the key in making relationship work!

Kata orang:

Bila CINTA datang..

mandi tak basah.
tidur tak lena.
makan tak kenyang.


Now im going through all the above.

=)

today is such a wonderful and excited day for me!

let me tell u why i felt so merrily happy today...

I was at work the whole day, preparing for school re-open.
After i finished my zohor prayer, i went down stairs and i saw someone!
Our eyes met!

Ouh! I quickly looked on the floor to avoid deep eye contact.
While walking my heart says "He's the ONE!" The guy!
Yeay, i saw him just now.


Love @ first sight.
While i was talking to Cik Yati i saw him looking towards me.
I quickly covered my face with a paper.hehe.

Few minutes later i went upstairs to my colleagues classroom and i told her everything.

Suddenly someone knocked on the classroom door.
I saw him with Ustaz Yazid.

I was so panic to see him in front of the door and I quickly hid behind the shelves!!!
I refused to show my face; i shivered. I was too shocked.
My colleagues pastered me to get up because he insists to look at me clearly but i refused i was so scared and "paisey".

I just hid and sat on the floor throughout the "meetings".

He came to search for me early june but i was not in.
Look! He really really seems soo interested in me.

We exchange phone numbers and when he left i got up and still feels the fright!

Now...we are contacting each other.

Thanks to my colleagues~!

It's Darussalam Donation Day!
I was posted @ Al-Falah Mosque.
Super friendly!
They gave us Briyani for lunch.
Uhhhh! Alhamdulillah!

• Cinta bukan segala-galanya, karena cinta yang sebenarnya adalah cinta sesudah ijab kabul.
• Fahami erti perkahwinan untuk membangun rumah tangga.
• Bagi orang tua, jangan memaksa untuk menjodohkan anak tapi memberikan pengertian pada anak supaya faham tentang membangunkan rumah tangga.
  
• Dalam memilih jodoh, ciptakan komunikasi yang membangun antara orang tua dan anak.
• Carilah jodoh yang ahli berterimakasih, ahli bersyukur dan ahli sabar.
• Berprinsiplah~ bila ingin mencari sampah maka di tong sampah tapi bila ingin mencari berlian maka carilah di tempat perhiasan.
• Carilah jodoh yang sayang terhadap orang tua.
• Berusaha kemudian berdoa.

Syair Istikharah

Ya - Rabbul Ariffin
Seandainya kau telah taqdirkan dia milikku
tercipta buatku
dekatkanlah hatiku dengan hatinya.
Tetapkanlah kemesraan antara kami,
agar kebahagiaan ini kekal abadi.

Ya Muhaimin
Seiringkanlah kami
mengiringi kehidupan luas ini
ketepian yang sejahtera.

Ya Rabbul Fatihin
seandainya dia telah Kau taqdirkan bukan milikku
bawalah dia jauh dari pandanganku
luput dari ingatanku
dan peliharakanlah aku dari kecewa.

Ya Rabbul Izzati
Berikanlah aku kekuatan,
melontarkan bayangannya kedada langit hilang bersama senja merah
agar aku bisa bahagia
walaupun tanpa dirinya.

Ya Rabbul Quddus
Gantikanlah yang telah patah
meskipun tidak sama dengan dirinya
biar sekuat mana aku mengasihinya
aku mohon pada Mu Allah
agar melenyapkan perasaan ini
seandainya benar dia ditaqdirkan bukan untukku.

Tetapi seandainya dia telah ditaqdirkan untuk diriku
aku mohon kasih dan sayang Mu
agar memperkuatkan kasih sayangku padanya
selagi mana tidak melebihi kasih sayangku pada Mu.

Ya Rahman Ya Rahim,
Cukuplan Engkau sahaja menjadi pemeliharaku
Didunia dan di akhirat
Dan peliharalah kami dari azab api neraka

Amin………

whole day spent @ ecp with my colleagues!
wohoooooo~! fun-fun day!
I have a new friends-Raudah, Fizah and Edward!
They are d most fa-bu-lo-us people~!
They help me, understand me and always care for me.
May our friendship last forever! insya ALLAH.

Hmmm..
remember d guy whom interested in me?
d 44 year old guy?
Ustaz Yazid was looking for me coz he wants to show me the guy in person.
My colleagues said he's nice looking, doesn't look like 44 year old man!

Seriously, im now searching more information on "perbezaan umur dalam perkahwinan".
I've been reading a lot more than usual, looking up on all the hadiths and reading forums too!
Asking people opinions and im also reading the history of our prophet Muhammad s.a.w
His marriage with Aisyah r.a and Khadijah Binti Khuwailid.

dilemma = istikharah


“ Barangsiapa yang bertaqwa kepada Allah maka sesungguhnya Allah akan menyediakan baginya jalan keluar (dari kesusahan) dan memberikannya rezeki dari jalan-jalan yang tidak disangkai olehnya” (Surah Thalaq : 2-3)